“At alam ko na binibigyan na kita ng karapatan na saktan ako dahil hinahayaan ko ang sarili kong mahulog sa’yo.” – Kung bakit ako naiyak sa bagong commercial ng McDo (Parang Kayo, Pero Hindi; Noringai)
“Parang Kayp, Pero Hindi”
Title palang, pamatay na.
Nung nakita ko ‘tong librong ‘to feeling ko ang sarap niya basahin. I can already tell e, pabalat palang, you can relate a lot in this book. Because I think we all go through this stage. The “parang kayo pero hindi” stage. You’re both uncertain, the MU level, more than friends but less than lovers.
Ang maganda sa librong ito is that it gave me something that’s more than what it promised me. Andito yung thoughts niya about the pseudo relationship stage, yes. However, there’s more than that. In love, there’s a heck of a lot more. The first love, the one that got away, da moves, being nostalgic, crushes, casual sex and of course, MORE.
Habang binabasa mo ‘yung libro, makikita mo nalang ang sarili mo either tumatawa sa mga banat at hugot niya or nagcri-cringe kasi affected ka. Kasi ikaw ‘yun e. Naka-relate ka. Sapul na sapul sayo ‘yung patama niya.
However, most of the time, makikita mo ang sarili mong absentmindedly na tumutungo sa libro o bigla-bigla nalang ngingiti. Because you know, that somewhere inside you, habang nagbabasa ka, may taong nasa isipan mo. Kahit na alam mong me pagka-fiction ‘yung iba, ay may nararamdaman ka habang binabasa mo ito. Alam mo na may pinanggalingan ang chapter na ito at iyun ay totoo. Kasi, ikaw mismo naexperience o naramdaman mo na ‘yun e.
Isa sa mga bagay na nagustuhan ko about the book is ‘yung pagkakahati-hati niya. ‘Yun bang classified sila. There’s the book and then there’s the chapters and the essays and short stories inside them. They fit each other perfectly. Like, the parts just fell perfectly into their own places.
Hindi lang siya basta-basta essays about love na kalat-kalat and thrown into a book just like that. Mafe-feel mo yung maturity niya as you go nearer and nearer to the last page of the book.
One more thing, maririnig mo talaga ‘yung unique voice ni Noringai. She has her own style of writing. ‘Yun bang kapag nakakita ka ng isang article, kahit walang name, alam mong siya yun. At kahit na napaka-deep ng topic, she finds a way to make it light. I mean, she learned life freaking lessons from Candy Crush!! Oha. Oha.
Lastly, ang librong ito ay hindi lang about sa love, mayroon ‘ding mga life realizations na naisingit and mga bagay tungkol sa dreams and goals mo sa life. Shinare niya ‘yung struggles niya sa buhay, personal issues and the like. You can see her life through the pages; bits and pieces of her childhood and how she got to where she is now and ‘yung mga lessons na napulot niya along the way.
I felt this book is really personal and gawa siya ng isang tunay na tao. Hindi fiction ‘yung author. May flaws at mga pagkakamali, ‘yung strengths niya at sarili niyang quirks. Noreen Capili is really brave not only to write and get emotionally naked on paper but also because she shared it to the entire world. The awesome part there is that she wants to.
So ayun, I recommend this book for people who has loved, been loved, wants to be loved and is currently being loved. Actually I’ll recommend you this book even though you are not in the disgusting business of falling in love, e. This book is a good read and the essay element of it invites you to be more introspective in life.
Hindi ko alam kung ano ang mas masakit: ang patuloy na umasa sa isang bagay na hindi mo alam kung mangyayari? O ang sumuko na lang at tanggapin na hindi na talaga ito mangyayari? – It’s a tie (Buti Pa ang Roma, may Bagong Papa; Noringai)
In this book I cried, I found love, became a cranky old man, lost a loved one, became nervous then thankful for my life and most probably felt all the feels a 17 year old like me could handle. Maybe even more.
I read this book, exactly right after I read Noringai’s first one. And I must admit, naka-sakay ako sa LRT nun, pauwi galing school and that first essay, that cynical essay about Christmas, kung saan feeling ko e dedicated sakin, made me laugh out loud. Literally. I even clapped for her while laughing and yes, people stared. But I can’t help it! Ang witty e. That rendition of “Pasko na Sinta ko” is nothing but sheer genius.
Sa librong ito, Noringai invites us deeper into her past life. Mula pagka-bata up to college and after that, covered nito. But this isn’t about her, it’s about the decisions and things she did while she’s at it.
This second book offered me something that is waaaaaaay more than love. Here she talked about life, how precious it is. How she nearly lost hers. About everything she learned, she learned in kakikayan and shoes. Huge lessons in her vacation trip to Saigon and lot, and I’m telling you, a lot more.
You can see Noreen evolve from the first book. She changed a lot, learned new lessons and all that. I am very thankful because she shared her life lessons with us. They say, “Life is a hard teacher for it gives the tests first and the lessons after.” Noreen broke that, she gave us the lessons so when the test comes, we know what to do.